We can talk about love in many different perspectives. I¡¯d like to post my thought about platonic love and sexual love here which has been brooded in my mind for long for people who happen to read this to develop a discussion.

No wonder that sexual love universally exists among all the creatures in the world, with which new generations are produced and the world are fraught with vitality. To me, human are the most advanced creatures in physicalness compared with all other creatures, but are not in spiritualness, because we have physical desire for love¡ªwe long for sexual pleasure, which I regard as animal-like behavior. Well, yeah, human in itself are animals no matter how advanced we are¡ªwe have the basically physical need for love to sustain our life.

I worship spirituality and have been regarding platonic love is sacred far beyond sexual love. If there¡¯s some day that human, with perfect physical features, could move up a notch and transcend physical desire for love to get perfect in spirituality as well, then platonic love would take place of sexual love and dominate the universe? This is a question I¡¯ve been pondering and hoping to get answer.

Also, if sexual love and platonic love are both what we need, shall we enjoy them at the same time? Then, what does fidelity or faithfulness mean? Does it require us to be totally faithful to only one partner both spiritually and sexually? Or be faithful respectively to two partners¡ªone we love sexually and the other spiritually? Or we just act all of this up to our own understanding?

Some questions are unanswerable and some confusion is unexplainable. But there should be possibility to give it some discussion which may help to disperse my bafflement about life.